Category: HebaSays

كن لطيفا أرجوك

فبراير: كن لطيفا أرجوك .. فقد رحل يناير مخلفا غصة في داخلي ..

وداعاً يا شهر يناير، فقد كنت ضيفاً ثقيلاً على قلبي الصغير ..

  جلستُ أَنْثرُ ذِكرياتك يا يناير، و أتذكر آثارك المتبقية في ذاكرتي ارتجفت يداي وابيضت شفتاي وتسارعت نبضات قلبي  خنقتني عبرتي ولكن دموعي ابت ان تسقط و صوت في داخلي يردد “لمــــــاذا؟” يناير كنت احد الشهور المفضلة لي، ولكني اليوم اصبحت ابغضك وكم انا سعيدة برحيلك ان وذكرياتك وكل ما بك …


When we overrate audience and underrate advocacy!

inUnfortunately, many confuse audience with influence. Having a lot of followers or fans doesn’t give you the power to drive action, it gives you the power to drive awareness. We’ve been hearing the word “social media influencer” a lot till we reached a point where the true meaning faded.  “Social influencers,” as they’re known, are social media users with a strong group of followers. While many social influencers tend to have large followings, what’s more important than the number of followers is how many of them will mention, respond to or share an influencer’s posts.

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Co-Dependency is NOT Love!

“When you have to choose between a relationship and you, always choose you?” Natalie Lue

Codependent-relationships-with-an-addict-or-alcoholic1You give too much. You are the caregivers & rescuers. You feel compelled to help and solve the problems of others. You put up with way too much and receive way too little in return. You are nurturers and you become obsessed with the person in your life and you forget about yourself. You are the one who takes on other people’s baggage, anxiety, guilt, pain, anger and make it your own, spending all of your energy on others and only others. This is “Co-Dependency”!

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انت تختار

عندما تفقد بريق حضورك عند شخص أحببته، أمامك خيارين لا ثالث لهما، إما أن ترحل بعيداً عنه دون عتاب؛ أو أن تبقى معه مكسوراً – الهاء


A Friday Ramble

10362127_297801283731358_1523462389_nA time comes in our life when we finally get it. When in the midst of all our fears and insanity we stop and somewhere, the voice inside your head cries out – ENOUGH!  Enough fighting and crying, or struggling to hold on. The awakening comes  after a blind tantrum, when our sobs begin to subside, we blink back our tears and through a mantle of wet lashes, we begin to look at the world through new eyes.

Sometimes we need to be reminded of the difference between wanting and needing, and the impact of trusting and loving ourselves.


RIP Maya Angelou

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I’ve learned that no matter what happens, or how bad it seems today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow. I’ve learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she handles these three things: a rainy day, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas tree lights. I’ve learned that regardless of your relationship with your parents, you’ll miss them when they’re gone from your life. I’ve learned that making a “living” is not the same thing as making a “life.” I’ve learned that life sometimes gives you a second chance. I’ve learned that you shouldn’t go through life with a catcher’s mitt on both hands; you need to be able to throw something back. I’ve learned that whenever I decide something with an open heart, I usually make the right decision. I’ve learned that even when I have pains, I don’t have to be one. I’ve learned that every day you should reach out and touch someone. People love a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back. I’ve learned that I still have a lot to learn. I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.R.I.P Maya Angelou

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افتقدتك جداً يا جدي

 

جدي الحنون..
جدي الإنسان العظيم ..
جدي القلب الكبير..
جدي الكرم ..
والطيبة، والسخــاء، والرحمة، والحكمة

اني افتقدك بقوه يا جدي واجد مكانك فارغ لن يملئه احد. كُنت البركة في منزلك الكبيــر اما الآن يا جدي المنزل اصبح موحش .. بفقدك إفتقدنا الحب والدفء. لازال أتذكر خبر وفاتك حتى الآن … كنت مصدر قوتي، انت من علمني ان أحب نفسي وأنت من زرعت فيني الثقة بالنفس وانت من رباني على الطيبة و الحكمة.

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